The other morning on a breakfast radio station they were discussing children of affairs – a listener had asked the question whether she should tell her adult children that they have a half brother from their father’s affair many years ago.  This sparked a wave of people from all sides ringing up and sharing stories –  many of them about the positive relationships that had been forged with affair children either as children or later as adults.

A question that comes up regularly from women whose husband’s have had affairs and the Affair Partner (AP) is either pregnant or has had a child of the affair is how can I be sure that the affair is really over?  The unfaithful husband has made a commitment back to the marriage but is still regularly seeing the Affair Partner because of the pregnancy or baby/child.  If this is your situation then the affair is not over.